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Shely Rachel, LMFT, RP(Q),Sex Therapist &
Jewish Energy Healer

Combining  Modern Psychology, Nervous System Regulation & Energy Medicine for a body-mind-soul healing experience.

Practical & effective tools to heal. 

@shelyrachel.lmft & @jewishmamasaywhat

Welcome ~ ברוך הבא

Hi! I am Shely Rachel,

Helping people feel comfortable in their bodies is my mission statement. I am passionate about combining different modalities & techniques to help each person based on their individual needs. 

I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist from NYS and a Registered Psychotherapist (Q) in the Province of Ontario. I am also certified as a Gottman level 1 & 2 therapist. I am also in the process of becoming a Certified Sex Therapist. 

 I practice as a trauma-informed Therapist and Healer. I have training and continue to learn the power of the Sefirot, Hebrew letters, and Jewish mystical healing traditions.

 

Honorable mention: I got my B.A. in Psychology & Jewish Studies. I have basic training in Training in Traditional Chinese Medicine.

To read more about me keep scrolling down!

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Mind, Body and Soul

Learning how to feel at home in your body is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. Every body part, function, and ability the body offers is a story waiting to unfold. When people neglect or ignore different aspects of this system it tends to affect the efficacy of the person’s potential.

 

 The body is not a machine with separate parts. Homeostasis is the term used to describe the body as a unified system. All the organs and organ systems of the human body work together. This is because they are connected to and regulated by the nervous system and endocrine systems. The nervous system is the bridge between the brain and the gut. That is often what people mean when they say things like the mind, body connection. I find it even more useful to talk about the mind, body, and soul connection.

In the most basic spiritual lingo, the body is the home of the soul. I believe that the concept of treating your body like a temple is rooted in this belief. According to Jewish teachings we understand that there are five levels of the soul and that the sefirotic system is the foundation of the soul. There is so much to explore and unblock within the workings of the soul.

In my work, I find it most effective to weave together the matters of the body, mind, and soul for a full picture of the individual’s human experience.

  • Marriage Through the Lens of the Sefirot
    Marriage Through the Lens of the Sefirot
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    Get to know the makeup of your soul! This class will offer practical and down-to-earth wisdom and practices for a better marriage. This class will also help you understand the dynamics and psychology of relationships which will also be helpful for all situations.
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  • Calm the body and mind to connect to the soul
    Calm the body and mind to connect to the soul
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    Biohack your way to calm and make your way back to who you really are.
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  • Biohack Your Way to Calm
    Biohack Your Way to Calm
    Tue, May 30
    Biohack Your Way to Calm
    May 30, 2023, 8:00 p.m. – 9:20 p.m.
    Biohack Your Way to Calm
    May 30, 2023, 8:00 p.m. – 9:20 p.m.
    Biohack Your Way to Calm
    Join this class and create your very own Ventral Vagal Portfolio and learn how to calm the Nervous System in a really simplified way!
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  • 3 CE's Sex, Intimacy and Connection through the lens of the Sefirot
    3 CE's Sex, Intimacy and Connection through the lens of the Sefirot
    Sun, May 21
    sign up with Modern Sex Therapy Institute
    May 21, 2023, 9:00 a.m. – May 22, 2023, 12:00 p.m.
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    May 21, 2023, 9:00 a.m. – May 22, 2023, 12:00 p.m.
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  • The Psychology of Water
    The Psychology of Water
    Wed, Jan 04
    Psychology of Water
    Jan 04, 2023, 7:40 p.m. – 8:40 p.m.
    Psychology of Water
    Jan 04, 2023, 7:40 p.m. – 8:40 p.m.
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  • Editing & Expanding Sexuality from Jewish wisdom
    Editing & Expanding Sexuality from Jewish wisdom
    Sun, Dec 04
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    Dec 04, 2022, 8:15 p.m. – Dec 11, 2022, 9:30 p.m.
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    Dec 04, 2022, 8:15 p.m. – Dec 11, 2022, 9:30 p.m.
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    This class will pull from traditional Jewish sources (honoring halacha), Jewish Mysticism & Sex Therapy sources.
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  • Energy Centers from the Siddur
    Energy Centers from the Siddur
    Thu, Sep 22
    Jewish Energy Points
    Sep 22, 2022, 7:30 p.m. – 8:20 p.m.
    Jewish Energy Points
    Sep 22, 2022, 7:30 p.m. – 8:20 p.m.
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  • Relationships from the lens of the Sefira
    Relationships from the lens of the Sefira
    Mon, Sep 05
    Thornhill
    Sep 05, 2022, 8:30 p.m. – Sep 19, 2022, 8:30 p.m.
    Thornhill, Thornhill, Vaughan, ON, Canada
    Sep 05, 2022, 8:30 p.m. – Sep 19, 2022, 8:30 p.m.
    Thornhill, Thornhill, Vaughan, ON, Canada
    Relationship/Marriage through the lens of the Sefira. We will cover basic communication, connection, intimacy and sex that effects our relationship with ourselves and another. Mindfulness & other tools are offered to take home to use daily.
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  • Sexuality , Intimacy & Connection Through the Lens of the Sefirot
    Sexuality , Intimacy & Connection Through the Lens of the Sefirot
    Wed, Aug 31
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    Aug 31, 2022, 8:15 p.m. – 9:45 p.m.
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    A breakdown of Yesod, Tiferet & Chochmah & Binah from the sefirotic tree to help us dive into this topic.
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  •  sexuality through the lens of the Sefira
     sexuality through the lens of the Sefira
    Mon, Aug 22
    online class
    Aug 22, 2022, 8:00 p.m. – 9:15 p.m. EDT
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    Aug 22, 2022, 8:00 p.m. – 9:15 p.m. EDT
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    We will be approaching sex, sexuality, intimacy & connection through the lens of the Sefira and Jewish mysticism.
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  • Relationships through the lens of the Sefira
    Relationships through the lens of the Sefira
    Tue, Aug 02
    Tues Aug.2nd ONLINE
    Aug 02, 2022, 8:00 p.m. GMT+3 – Aug 16, 2022, 9:30 p.m. GMT+3
    Tues Aug.2nd ONLINE
    Aug 02, 2022, 8:00 p.m. GMT+3 – Aug 16, 2022, 9:30 p.m. GMT+3
    Tues Aug.2nd ONLINE
    This class will cover the bottom triangle of the Sefirotic tree ( Malchut, Yesod, Netzach and hod). We will work through a bottom up healing approach to tap into alignment with your relationship with yourself & another. This class will offer basic skills that you can apply to you relationships.
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  • Level 2 Relationships Through The Lens of the Sefira
    Level 2 Relationships Through The Lens of the Sefira
    Mon, Jul 25
    level 2 online
    Jul 25, 2022, 8:00 p.m. – 9:30 p.m. EDT
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    Jul 25, 2022, 8:00 p.m. – 9:30 p.m. EDT
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Modalities and Techniques

My integrative approach is intuitive based on each client that walks through my office. I often use an Experiential-Holistic approach mixed with Solution Focused, Narrative and Sefirot based model.I often pull from Bowenian therapy, Imago, Non-Violent Communication, Positive Psychology, and CBT etc. I also find it so important to include Nervous System Regulation with my clients. Depending on the client(s) that may look like Nervous System/Vagus nerve education and awareness, Breathwork, Meditation, Somatic Movement, or Yoga. Inner child healing and intergenerational healing is almost always part of my work with my clients.

I also love teaching! It brings me tremendous joy to utilize all my passions & and talents. I believe I offer a unique lens on a wide variety of topics ranging from Spirituality, Existentialism, Mindfulness, Holistic Biopsych, Womens Health, Energy Healing (refuah hanfesh), and of course Sexuality etc...

 

I am currently inspired by the Nachat Ruach Treatment Model (NRTM), Polyvagal Theory, the Gan Eden Story, the Emotional Freedom Technique & DBT.

I am always learning + growing. 

 

For payment, information keep scrolling down! 

Shely's presentation touches on an aspect of human sexuality and wellness that rarely gets the attention it deserves- the intersections of sex and spirituality. Judaism offers a plethora of resources that provide frameworks to embrace sex positivity, but resources on these aspects can be elusive. Shely has done a fantastic job of exploring these concepts and making them easily applicable to a wide audience. 

Dr.Laura McGuire

Shely is amazing! She's helped me learn how to set healthy boundaries and practice self-care. She's helped me not feel shamed or guilty for actions out of my control. She continually provides support, good advice, and encouragement. Shely is attentive and compassionate, while remaining professional. I feel blessed that I found her, as she has helped me tremendously in my growth and healing process.

 

 A.W

Shely's meditations are heart-healing. She guides people with gentleness and brings you deep into your consciousness. I always feel so relaxed, centered, and renewed after a meditation session with shely.

Natalya Oziel

Payment 

 My classes are currently operating on a sliding scale.

check out my book a session section for contact info.

Crisis support

Shalom Task Force for Domestic Abuse

confidential Hotline: 718.337.3700 / 888.883.2323

confidential Text/ Whatsapp Line: 888.883.2323

Postpartum Support International

helpline: 1.800.944.4773

Suicide Hotline

1.800.273.8255

Eshel support group for Orthodox Jewish parents with LGBTQ+ children

1.724.374.3501     1.724.ESHEL01

Ora Agunot

1.844.673.5463

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